Interaction between teacher and pupil can be viewed from different angles; paper is devoted to: • the social world of teenagers and a teacher in it, • parents and teachers as important in the development of adolescents, adults, • changes in styles of upbringing in the family, • Teacher "ideal" and Teacher "experts " • the role of teacher and pupil in the school world, • define the characteristics and interactions of school - an educational and relationship management • educational styles of teachers and their pupils reflection.