The way in which intimate partners communicate in conflict is suggested as possible correlate of partner violence. Specifically, the presence of demand-withdraw pattern may signify unequal distribution of power related to violence.
However, attention was so far directed mainly to American women' perception of communication patterns in their couple. In the study we investigate the link between partner-demand and self-withdraw pattern and intimate partner violence as reported by Czech men and women.
We hypothesized rather lenient attitudes toward violence and more experiences with violence among people reporting this pattern. Data stem from a 2019 survey focused on intimate partner violence.
A quota sample (n = 1699) consisting of Czech inhabitants between 18 and 75 years old was gathered. Couples as well as individuals with varying relationship status were interviewed.
To assess the demand-withdraw pattern, the 7-item version of the Communication Patterns Questionnaire was used. Alongside that we evaluated experience and attitudes to physical, sexual and verbal forms of violence, with items derived from the Conflict Tactics Scale.
The scale of partner-demand and self-withdraw shows high internal consistency. Men report higher probability of self-withdrawing than women.
Male as well as female withdrawing is positively associated with presence of all investigated forms of violence in the couple (in the position of offenders as well as victims). Moreover, self-withdrawing men and women tend to generally tolerate violent conflicts in couples and rude partners' behavior.
The study results correspond to earlier findings that demand-withdraw pattern is related to intimate partner violence. However, the study emphasizes relevance of partner-demand and self-withdraw pattern in Czech couples experiencing violence.
Apart from previously suggested explanations we can think about self-withdrawing as manifestation of indulgent beliefs regarding intimate violence.